Gadgets & Gizmo's

OOOOOOOOOOOOOO Zena's favourite things on SL , I louvres me gadgets . Yep yep . Attach something to your self or changing your AV in to something totally weird it fantastic. SL is second life soooooooo why be normal , then again define normal cause I ant got a clue what that word means. Shopping around looking for stuff that is fun , checking out the new play thing you can find.


I also enjoy visual things , I like to search high and low for things to surprise Muscle. I thought the fire work and the sky writer was out of this world until I found our psychedelic ball and our Holodeck . Ok you reading this and scratching your head, thinking what the hell is she on about , well let me explain ooooo and show you pictures. The psychedelic ball is a massive sphere where I we can dance and chill out , it has particles flying around and looks like its something form the 60s , like you have been on an acid trip . Its fun and fantastic , Lace had one and as soon as I saw it my mind went in to I want mode . I knew Muscle would love it , yep I was right left him gob smacked .

Zena in the sphere

I really didn't think I could top the ball ,I was wrong. Next came the holodeck, Bubba was the first to show me what a holodeck was,I saw, I wanted . The Holodeck is a huge block you go inside , you can load different scene in it , makes you think you are really there its fantastic very relaxing. Had to get my honey bear one for a surprise.

Zena walking on water

Zena in the desert

Next on to my many different avatars, I love changing in to different animals ,why stay in a human form when you can run like a cheetah, hop like a bunny and pounce like a cat. SL lets you be anything you like .ohhhhh and dress up Zena loves playing dress up

Zena in her cheetah AV

Zena as cute tiny pony , be careful, dont stand down wind ,pony has bad wind

awww so cute but this Beaming bunny bites

OHHHHH then there's just gadgets that make you laugh so much, Muscle & I had so much fun attaching things to ourselves. Somethings are just so funny, it make you laugh what people design for SL is crazy . Playing with light sabers, attaching different animations on to see what they do. I even took Muscle shopping giving him a wheel barrow ride,so funny to watch ,had me in stitches.This is what makes SL so great to be able to play like kids ,laugh and just have soooo much fun with no drama why take your second life so serious, when it can be so fun . I lurrrrrrve my SL life.

Muscle & Zena dead after light saber fight

Chilling out in lala land with my rubber duckie

Muscle giving Zena a wheel barrow ride

Trying out me giving wheel barrow ride to Muscle I get side tracked and take him shopping .

Confusion

Confusion and miss interpretation sets in this week , last two weeks in RL have been no less then chaos, trying to spend as much time as we can together, trying to beat the tiredness to just spend that second with your love one.



Realising you both have the same goal on what you want , but your mind puts a different spin on it. The words you read on the screen computes in to totally different things in your own mind. Then your mind ticks as you read the words wrong on the screen and confusion sets in . Both of us mean the same thing just coming from different directions. Bickering starts as you try to understand what each other is trying to say. Maybe its because we spent less time together then usual . When we do get back in to our stride its the best thing ever, thinking the same, heart beating as one, minds being lost in each other,however when we are out of sync tempers fray and miss interpretation sets in.


You can't be perfect and agree in all your thoughts, if you was always on the same wave length and think the same , wouldn't it be boring?. I know both have a fiery temper this is a fact, anyone really knows me can see the fire in me. We both have our own way of thinking ,both not wrong in the way our minds work just different. To try and understand what the the other is saying , listening and understanding is the best thing we can do, not to change the other ones minds set, just learn how each others works.

To step back , look at what was said . remembering the focus and the goal you both have brings it back on track . Talk through what happened , just to lean more about the other.

My mood has been flat , not high,not low just flat .RL issues knocked the stuffing out of me,when I am with my friends its different on SL because I can but the crazy Zena face on and forget what is going on in my own mind . When I am with Muscle he reads me like a book and senses my mood , I try to say all OK , but he knows ,this confuses him and tries to work out why . I know my own mind I can read in to situations wrong,I started to thinks of..... IF..WHATS and WHYS, negatives not positives. When our moods fly ,wow we are off the scale. When one of us is low dam hell has opened its gates, when one of us is flat then confusion sets in on both parts.

Its all a leaning curve , to stop to understand then you are giving up on a dream, however to try and understand the other, accept the other ones view , listening and talking , learning something new from each other is all part of becoming stronger and stronger .

Easter

WHATS UP DOC???????

Sexy bunny rabbits invade SL , yep yep its that time where we can all be big kids again. Can't give Easter Eggs out on SL , well I suppose you can but you cant eat them . So dressed as a bunny, I hop from club to club wishing a Happy Easter to one and all. Shaking my bunny tail with my friends. We got Sugar Daddy dressed in pink even Jose joined in on the fun and games.

SEXY BUNNIES

Friends

Boundaries is the first one and most important , making sure they are set so no one miss communicates what you are all about on SL. There are 2 boundaries I have set .RL is RL ,SL is SL some friends who you get close to,you let them in a little and talk about RL issues ,some friends you play the game with and keep it to SL .
I will always be there for my friends on SL , most of them have been there from the start and watched me bloom in to the flower I have become . I hate to see them down, we are like a little family and sometimes im more of a big sister to them then they are to me, its swings and roundabouts I know if I shout they will be there for me.
When you first come on SL you want everyone as your friends , this slows down as you learn the true meaning of SL friendships,you stop taking friendships at face value. I personally only take friendships now when I have known them for a while. I have a lot more female friends , I really didn't think I could meet a great bunch.

My friends circle has totally changed.
I said goodbye to a lot of people when I partnered Muscle, that's because I could only ever offer friendship. Lot of friends couldn't understand what friendship meant, So that was goodbye. Then I had friends that tagged along for a while waiting in the darkness , waiting to pounce at the first sign of Muscle & I breaking up well no sign of that so yep goodbye.Then there's just friends you just grow apart from, you become ships in the night almost out growing each other, I guess that's just the way of life.
Sooooooo looking at my friends list now it was some new faces. Winne alias Sugar Daddy , Raul & Suzi still there think we will probably grow old together in SL. Winne still my dancing bud and looks out for me when I am in the club you will find us in a trio Zena, Winne & Lace. Raul ....well he is still the stud muffin he has always been , no women is safe (apart from me) we catch up sometimes if we have a spare minute but sadly not like we used to . Suzi well she had her own journey to go throw we don't talk like we used to but we both know we are there if needed, I will always be there for her.
My new friends ...... Really good bunch , they remember what SL is all about,they know how to have fun and laugh. I met these after Muscle & I had partnered . The boundary was already set for them, they all understand that I have a partner and never push me in to anything else. My friends are all about fun, lace is my sexy twin shes great , makes me laugh so much to the point I nearly pee my pants . No drama just a bunch of us having a laughing and having a lot of fun.You always get the ones who take SL far to serious they forget what there funny bone is for.
This weekend was party weekend , it was great the terrible trio causing chaos as usual , Jose who is also a great friend joins in when he can, you will tend to see Zena & Lace picking on the males a little but its all in the name of fun ,they love it really, always come back for more.We are not not bad just a little naughty and cheeky I can guarantee you we will always lighten up your day and make you laugh .

Pool Party

ST PATRICKS DAY PARTY

SUGAR DADDY & SEXY TWINS

I DO

The biggest U -turn of my SL life. YEP YEP......... Muscle & Zena gets married .

OMG don't drop on the floor.

What can I say changed my mind. well not in so many ways really. Didn't want a big affair. We wanted to make it very private. No one was there apart for us. We made a special place in Lala land for us to say some special words ,dressed up in the gear.I still have strong views on getting married in SL , I really don't believe in all the mumbo jumbo. We partnered 5 months ago, we are as still very much lost in love with each other everyday I wake up and thank the heavens for me finding my soulmate . I always classed Muscle as my hubby as he does me his wife nothing really has changed apart from knowing I will always be with him at his side, hand in hand riding this crazy worlds roller coaster we know and love .

Friday 7th March Muscle and Zena tied the Knot .

It was a very special night full of the greatest affections and love . Muscle made me something very special one of a kind in SL. He made my ring. Yes your right I am not saying much about our special night , what can I say...... We did our own thing, not comply with what the crowd follows and expects . A wedding can mean different things to different people. You can have the biggest party of your SL life or the smallest party. We choose to have a party and celebration for 2 full of the greatest words and perfection for both of us. xxxxxx

Lala land on the move

Old Lala land in all its glory

Yep yep we are on the move. Packed all up and said goodbye to our old land and move to a corner plot where we can have the full sunset. We had just got Lala sorted and complete in to heaven , then next thing we move and start all over a again.
Day one….. Zena spots the plot of land, decides she must have and she needs. Muscle the voice of reason talks her in to thinking logic. Yep she does for about ohhhhh 5 mins then side tracks in to I want mode. We have 4000sm of land and we live on ohhhhhhh about a 3ed of that. The rest well just Zena muscle creating wonderful surroundings. The plot of land for sale was double the amount and yep he’s right we don’t need anymore land the size we have is big enough for us two.
Day Two …… Muscle tells Zena we can swap the plot of land, he had spoken to the land manager Tex she agreed to half the plot for sale and swap our land for the corner we both always wanted a corner plot so sale agreed, we both said goodbye to our home and packed everything away. Moved on to new land with a complete blank canvas. Minds ticking away on what to build. We stood there for a while unsure where to start. Muscle taking control of building the house, Zena the surroundings.
Day Three……… Lala land looking better then ever the jigsaw pieces slowly coming together .Bit by bit prim by prim Lala land starts to shine in all its splendour.

We have learnt a lot in building and creating, every time we take it back to the beginning and build from scratch we seem to it bigger and better. The first time we build total chaos, needing everything on the land. As time goes on and you pick up different tips on building and creating you become more focused on prim counts and understanding the way thing works. Looking back from old house to new house .Wow what a change .Pats Zena and Muscle on the back for a job well done

New plot of land

slowly lala land gets pieced together

Lala land looking good

Giant Snail Race

Ready steady go…….. and there off…..
A night at the races SL style……Dog racing? Nope ...Horse racing? Ermmmmmm nope
Only in the world of SL you can go and watch giant snails. Yep yep you read it right, I will say it again in cause you miss heard me Giant Snail Racing. Muscle and I was introduced to the crazy racing on SL TV. Watch it for a bit while flicking channels. Muscle surprised me by taking me to watch the races while it happened. Two words can totally describe it Total Carnage. Chaos in the making, your eyes all over the shot as you pick the colour snail you choose to win. Its crazy to watch and funny . Its one of them must see to believe it. The snails are avatars changed in to snails. Its very funny to watch but has lag issues . The sim crashed while we was there, really its is chaos you have to listen to the voice feed to find out what is going on.When you sit on the bench , this is the colour of the snail you want to win. The bench follows the race for you it helps you keep up.See for your self, you will roll on floor laughing .

Muscle and Zena wait for the race to start

Zena & Mucle trying to follow the race